What motivates people to do the things they do? There are many theories. It could be based on childhood experiences, or perhaps on peer pressure. Some scientist say argue for nature, and others for nurture as our prime motivations. Any way you look at it, its complicated.
Why did people look angry when I was driving around early this morning? Surely the fifty year old man who cut me off in his giant SUV wasn't still angry over his parents not sending him to summer camp. Perhaps he is angry at the media and the constant loop of nonsense they repeat every five minutes. Maybe he skipped breakfast and had low blood sugar. I'll never know.
Some people seem to be able to motivate themselves. They get up every morning with a plan and take care of business. Others have to be constantly reminded by friends and family that they have responsibilities as adults. For the life of me I don't understand how people muddle through the day in a haze of other people's directions.
All people want to be treated as reasonable adults, and have the respect of their peers. Even if they do not deserve it. As you begin this month of May you should look into your own motivations. Ask yourself why you do the things you do. Are your actions your own? Are they based on other people's expectations? Are they based on guilt? Look deep inside and find the fire to drive yourself on to your next accomplishment.
Nothing is more gratifying than seeing success resulting from your own initiative.
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